Monday, January 18, 2010

How to get through a difficult phase in life

Sometimes you felt that you have accomplished nothing after all the years that you've been through. Sometimes you felt that you've been living the same old life, stagnant...and being the same old self, boring...
Sometimes you wondered by yourself...why you have to put up with all the things that are not giving you the satisfaction that you wanted ?
And then the inevitable question would popped out in your mind, "Have I been on the right track?"

Those years that had passed, they cannot come back. They will not come knocking at your door one day and give you the chance to mend or improve again. Time is irreversible.

BUT time is also not going to wait for you.

You can't help feeling regrets sometimes. But you don't have to live with it all your life.

In life, you cannot see your future. Although you can plan it based on your interests, your capabilities and your strength, sometimes some people do not know what is their strength, what are they capable of doing, what do they want at that time. And so, you just grab whatever chance that seems to be working for you at the moment. Sometimes, it went well. Sometimes, it did not. And sometimes, you, by so far, are able to stay safe in your situation but inside your heart, you are suffering. You analyzed your situation and you found out that your options are limited. Frustrating isn't it?

But don't be sad. Yes, all task or would-be task seems very daunting to do, but if that is what you have to do right now, then you have to do it. Even if you do not like it, do it as best as you could. Work out your plan to redeem the lost years. Learn about yourself. Find that X-factor in yourself that you can cultivate and nurture for your own satisfaction. When you have found it, and when the time is right, then do not look back anymore. Go forward and pursue your true calling. And be content with your life.

You don't have to do great things to be happy.
You just have to do the things you love the most.
When you love it...you shine on it...the rest will take its own course..
and a great and happy person is reborn...


1 comment:

  1. in my opinion..

    life is like playing cards..sometimes you can get loose sometimes you won't.

    life is like a big wheel ..sometimes you up and sometimes you are down.

    life is like sailing in a big ocean..it's all depend on your wise judgment

    so..always pray for the best..

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